Hang on! You mean I must want something, visualize it, and be happy without it? Yes, it sounds crazy, but that is how it works. When you desperately want something you are in state of neediness, and in that state you actually push away what you really want. Being in state of neediness you are actually reinforcing the idea that you do not have. You are focusing on the negative rather on what you already have.
When you focus on what you have and be grateful for what you want as if you already have it, then you are focusing on the positive. You are closer to manifest your dreams
This worked for me in several occasions, especially when I wanted to fall pregnant. I could not fall pregnant. I was desperate to fall pregnant, and I had the pressure of everyone asking me when I would have a baby.
So I went to the doctors, and I tried to follow everything they said. I was anxious, nervous, and everything in my life was about falling pregnant.
I had endometriosis which the doctors cleared via a minor surgical intervention. The doctor, then, suggested that I try artificial insemination. Somehow I kept delaying it. It did not feel right. I wanted a baby, but I do not know why I kept putting the treatments off.
Then one day I said, I am really happy as I am. It was not that I woke up one day and said, I need to let go and it is fine if I do not have a baby. It was more profound. I really felt I was happy as I was. It was a profound feeling. I was happy with my life. I had all the time for myself, and if I did not have a baby, I would have been happy as well. So I let go. Two months later I was pregnant with no treatment.
It happened the same when I fell pregnant with my second child. I had 3 miscarriages after my first child. I wanted another one, and I wanted a girl, but nothing was gong to work. The clock was ticking. I was nearly 43. Then I decided that I would be happy if I had another child or not. I was happy. And I fell pregnant naturally on my 43rd birthday. Of course it was a girl, which is what I wanted since I was young.
So, I know you are visualizing what you want, but are you desperately for it, or are you currently happy with your life as it is?
30 Day Law of Attraction Challenge – Day 12 and 13
The last two days have been very hectic and probably trying to do many things/
But I have continuously done my visualization.
I have done my affirmations and incorporated one more
I am powerful and loving.
I have been reading Susan Jeffers, Dare to Connect/ The First time I read this book was over 20 years ago. I probably did not understand everything, or perhaps I had forgotten.
My gratitude list was
Nice meeting with friends and sharing
Beautiful natural gem stones
Susan Jeffers book
Mirror to get to know myself
Breathing (shows me I am alive)
The beautiful world
You can read more about the 30 day Law of attraction challenge